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The Truth About Motivation

Writer: Ron SmedleyRon Smedley

the truth about motivation

The Truth About Motivation: How to Stay Consistent When It Fades


Motivation—it’s the spark that gets you started, but it doesn’t always stick around. One day you’re fired up, ready to tackle your goals, and the next, you’re dragging yourself through the motions and may even feel like quitting or like maybe this isn't what you really want. Sound familiar?


Here’s the truth: motivation is fleeting, and that’s okay. It’s not something you can rely on 24/7, but there’s good news—you don’t have to. Let’s break down how to stay consistent even when motivation takes a backseat, and bust a few myths along the way.


Why Motivation Fades

Motivation isn’t a constant—it ebbs and flows because it’s often tied to emotions, energy, or external factors like excitement or urgency. Once the novelty wears off or obstacles appear, motivation tends to disappear. That’s why waiting to “feel motivated” isn’t the key to success. That's why motivational videos get millions of views a day, motivational books sell faster than pancakes at a Waffle House, and motivational speakers can charge hundreds or even thousands of dollars to the same clients over and over.


Myths About Motivation (and the Truths Athletes Need)

  1. Myth: You Need Motivation to Succeed

    • Truth: Success comes from discipline, not motivation. The best athletes stick to their routines even on days they don’t feel like it. Motivation starts the journey, but discipline keeps you moving.

  2. Myth: Motivation Will Always Be There

    • Truth: Motivation is like a wave—it rises and falls. Relying on it can leave you stuck when it fades. The key is building systems and habits that keep you going regardless of how you feel.

  3. Myth: Motivation Comes Naturally to Great Athletes

    • Truth: Even the best struggle with staying motivated. The difference? They focus on consistency and embrace the grind. They know the payoff is worth it.


How to Stay Motivated (or Keep Going Without It)

  1. Focus on Your “Why”

    Motivation comes and goes, but your purpose doesn’t. Why are you doing this? Whether it’s to grow, compete, or prove something to yourself, reconnect with your deeper reason when the spark fades.

  2. Create Systems and Habits

    Build daily routines that support your goals. When you have a system in place, you're more likely to show up whether you’re motivated or not. Consistency beats occasional bursts of energy every time.

  3. Set Small, Achievable Goals

    Break your big goals into smaller milestones. Achieving even small wins keeps you moving forward, builds momentum, and feels great in the process.

  4. Surround Yourself with Positivity

    The people around you matter. Surround yourself with teammates, friends, or mentors who inspire and push you. Motivation can be contagious and the positive energy of those around you should be also. Some days it may be you motivating them.

  5. Celebrate Progress

    Don’t just focus on the destination—acknowledge how far you’ve come. Every step forward is proof of your hard work and resilience.

  6. Learn to Embrace the Grind

    Motivation may fade, but the grind is where growth happens. Lean into the work, knowing it’s shaping you into the person and athlete you want to become.


Final Thoughts

Motivation is a great starting point, but it’s not the engine that drives success—that’s discipline, consistency, and resilience. The best athletes and high achievers know this, and they show up even when the fire isn’t burning as brightly.


So, the next time you feel like you’ve “lost motivation,” don’t stress. Remember why you started, lean into your habits, and trust the process. Stay consistent, and you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve.


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